I was 17 years old, still a virgin, still innocent about the world.
Long hair.
About to enlist in National Service.
Living with my parents in a three-room HDB flat at Sims Drive.
I go to the kopitiam every day. Same kopi. Same toast. Same people. And honestly… I think I’ve learned more there than in some expensive seminars. Before you get offended, hear me out. At the kopitiam, nobody talks about “mindset,” “strategy,” or “scaling.” But the hawker who opens at
You still care what other people think of you. It is a pattern that was built a long time ago. At some point in your life, you experienced rejection, embarrassment, or not fitting in. Maybe you were judged for how you looked, how you spoke, or where you came from.
You scroll for five minutes. Everyone bought a condo, launched a startup, got married, ran a marathon, and somehow still has glowing skin. You look at your kopi, your to-do list, and your life choices. Suddenly, even your WiFi feels faster than your progress. Welcome to Singapore, where success is
Answering questions is dangerous. You might accidentally answer them. Here’s how to avoid that. A sarcastic guide for those who prefer control over clarity. 1. Attack the Questioner’s Intelligence Goal: Make them regret opening their mouth. Example: “That question shows a fundamental misunderstanding of how things work.” Translation: