The Samsui Woman's Advice
When I was 16 and waiting for my O-Level results, I worked for a few months for my brother-in-law, who ran a small construction company.
I drilled concrete floors until my whole body shook from the vibration.
I used a grinder to smooth the edges of window grilles and stair railings at a wealthy man's house near Newton Circle.
During a break, a Samsui woman looked at me and said, "Young man, study hard so you can become the owner of the house instead of breaking your back as a laborer."
I earned $10 a day.
At the time, that felt like a fortune.
On payday, I would cycle to the shop to buy beer and roasted duck for a celebration dinner with the workers, sponsored by my brother-in-law.
Some lessons are learned in the classroom. Others are learned from people who have already paid the price.