What does success actually mean to you?
For most of us, the definition arrived early and uninvited.
Do well in school.
Get a respectable job.
Earn more.
Keep earning.
It sounds reasonable. Almost kind.
But I am not convinced it leads to lasting happiness.
Because the moment you reach one milestone, another one appears.
A new benchmark.
A higher bar.
A quieter dissatisfaction.
You are never done. You are just briefly relieved.
This kind of success depends on the next achievement to feel complete. And there is always a next one waiting. Always something better to chase. Something shinier. Something just out of reach.
So we postpone contentment.
We delay living.
We tell ourselves, later.
I am learning to question that script.
Success, for me, is not a title or a number. It is not something society gets to name on my behalf. It is something personal. Something felt.
A good job is not one that looks impressive from the outside. It is one that gives me a sense of purpose. One that lets me end the day without feeling hollow.
Maybe success is not a destination at all.
Maybe it is a daily experience.
Something quiet.
Something lived.
Something you can feel, even on an ordinary Tuesday.
And maybe that is enough.